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Some Sex tips from rock stars

The bass line
Eliminate doubt
“The average rock star has spent most of his life being told he’s an arsehole,” says Happy Mondays frontman Shaun Ryder, not your average Adonis. “You survive by convincing yourself that you’re a fucking genius. Eventually you start to believe it.”
That self belief is a rare and attractive resource. But if swagger doesn’t come naturally to you, it can be learned. When in groups, try moving around the room and interacting with as many people as possible. When you speak, vary the pace of your voice from upbeat to slow, and deliver all your words with emphasis. Be controversial, counter-intuitive, emotional and fluent.
And get a bit of Liam in your stance. Recent research found that confident people keep an open posture with their hands apart and away from their face.
The encore Rock stars are unattainable. Create that exclusivity by having somewhere else to be and making your time with her feel limited.
Stage craft
Talk dirty
When Roxy Music hit their early-70s peak, it wasn’t frontman Bryan Ferry who got the most women, but the band’s androgynous synth wizard Brian Eno. “I’ve never had a problem with talking openly about sex and sexuality,” he says. “It’s a transgressive subject so it can catch people off guard and create an immediate intimacy.”
But talking smut requires some delicacy, cautions anthropologist Dr Helen Fisher. “Mention some aspect of sex in an abstract sense to test the waters. Shock tactics can work, but she needs to feel as if you’re the one taking the risk – not her.”
It can help if there’s some cognitive dissonance. If you’re a nerdy looking guy like Eno or Woody Allen, women won’t expect you to be kinky. “You’ll get away with far more than a 6ft 6in jock,” says Fisher.
The encore “Take a date to a burlesque evening,” suggests psychologist Marisa Peer. “It shows you’re not afraid of your sexuality.”
Lead guitar
Go solo
Like the rest of us, rock bands party in groups. “It’s a guy thing,” explains Slash, axe hero of Guns N’ Roses fame. “Guys go drinking with other guys. They hunt for women in packs. Women, surprise surprise, don’t often find that appealing. It’s usually the guy who shows he’s willing to break away who makes the most progress.”
Rock legend dictates as much. The successful womaniser breaks away from the entourage, making himself more ‘vulnerable’ by introducing himself to strangers. “You become a much safer proposition,” says Peer. But this is not just about creating physical space between you and others. “Females are attracted to ‘big men’ – but not just physically big,” says Fisher. These are men who stand out: the guy who asks questions during lectures, scores multiple strikes at the bowling alley or takes risks in the boardroom. Find the thing that marks you out – and push it.

The encore You don’t need to carry a Fender. A Borders poll shows women are more likely to flirt with a guy carrying a book.

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