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How to Talk her into bed

1.Accommodate her desires
She says 鈥淚t鈥檚 a pleasure to meet you鈥
You say 鈥淚t鈥檚 lovely to meet you, too. Can I get you a drink?鈥
Why? If she greets you formally (as above), you鈥檒l need to speak in a more formal way too, regardless of how you normally converse. You鈥檙e applying what linguists call 鈥榓ccommodation theory鈥. 鈥淭his grows from the sociological principle of 鈥榮imilarity attraction鈥,鈥 says University of London linguist Dr Erez Levon. 鈥淚f you seem more similar to people you like, they will like you back.鈥 In terms of first impressions, you鈥檙e talking a good game, and are likelier to score…
2.Ride her wavelength
She says 鈥淲hen I鈥檓 travelling, my favourite thing is to sit on the beach at dawn and watch the sunrise鈥
You say 鈥淭hat sounds like an ideal image to picture when work鈥檚 getting you down鈥
Why? Reflect 鈥榲isual鈥 words 鈥 like 鈥榠mage鈥 and 鈥榩icture鈥 back at her to show you鈥檙e on the same 鈥榬epresentational wavelength鈥. 鈥淓veryone fits into one representational system: either visual, auditory or kinaesthetic,鈥 says neuro-linguistics trainer Robert Steinhouse. 鈥淲e鈥檙e attracted to people with the same preference. If she鈥檚 auditory, she鈥檇 use predicates like 鈥榟ear鈥 and 鈥榣isten鈥; if she鈥檚 kinaesthetic they鈥檇 be 鈥榟ot鈥 and 鈥榝eel鈥欌.
3.Read between the lines
She says 鈥淚 tried this amazing red wine 鈥 I can鈥檛 remember what it was called 鈥 in Italy last year鈥
You say 鈥淲hereabouts in Italy did you go?鈥
Why? What she really wants to talk about is her trip to Italy 鈥 so ask her. 鈥淥ne of the biggest causes of miscommunication is the divergence between 鈥榣iteral鈥 and 鈥榠nferential鈥 communication,鈥 says behaviourist Emma James. 鈥淢en tend to be literal communicators. Women are more inferential. In this example, she wants to show off that she鈥檚 travelled, so push the conversation in that direction. She doesn鈥檛 actually want you to help her remember the name of the wine.鈥 Although ordering a bottle wouldn鈥檛 do any harm…

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